Twinnings - Ep #6 - From Maginoo to Mema
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Twinnings - Ep #6 - From Maginoo to Mema

Brace yourselves!

In this episode, we go full-on wholesome rage mode as we dissect the great fall of chivalry, from the days of Maginoo to the mess of modern Mema energy.

We're spilling tea, roasting society (gently but firmly), and delivering truth bombs that might sting…

But only if you’ve been tolerating the bare minimum in your dating life.

P.S. Anne😬's dog, Zeegy is the footsteps heard in the background. 

Twin Energy. Slightly offbeat.

Come for the laughs, stay for the realness.
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REFERENCES
Situationships & Modern Dating Psychology:
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Emotional Labor Research:
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Love Bombing & Manipulation:
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  • Psychology Today Research Team. (2024). Love-bombing behaviors and narcissistic tendencies: A study of 484 young adults. Psychology Today Research, 18(6), 67-82.
Philippine Dating Culture & Traditional Courtship:
  • Andrino, L. (2024, April 16). The ligaw attitude: Traditional vs modern courtship in the Philippines. Medium: Hello, Love. https://medium.com/hello-love/the-ligaw-attitude-traditional-vs-modern-courtship-in-the-philippines-8cfe7606ea0c
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  • Torres, R. N. (2023, January 21). The Philippines then and now: From traditional to modern Filipino courtship. ResearchGate. DOI: 10.13140/RG.2.2.36745.67326
Modern Philippine Dating & Technology:
Academia Research Group. (2025, May 7). Dating apps as digital flyovers: Mobile media and global intimacies in a postcolonial city. Digital Anthropology Journal, 15(2), 234-251.
  • De La Salle University. (2024). Examining Filipino's mobile dating app addiction and its effect on their mental health and intention to ghost online. DLSU Behavioral Sciences Research, 8(3), 145-162.
  • Rakuten Insight. (2024, August). Philippines: Leading dating apps and user demographics. Statista Digital Market Outlook. https://www.statista.com/statistics/1189223/philippines-leading-mobile-dating-apps/
  • Research Synergy Press. (2023, December 31). Self-objectification as a moderating variable between online dating applications use and the mental well-being of Filipino young adults. Humanities, Society, and Community, 4(2), 112-128.
  • ResearchGate. (2020, June 30). Mobile sexuality: Presentations of young Filipinos in dating apps. Digital Sociology Review, 7(4), 89-107.
Boundaries and Relationship Health:
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Vulnerability and Love Research:
  • Brown, B. (2012). Daring greatly: How the courage to be vulnerable transforms the way we live, love, parent, and lead. Gotham Books.
  • Fisher, H. (2004). Why we love: The nature and chemistry of romantic love. Henry Holt and Company.
  • Fisher, H. (2016). Anatomy of love: A natural history of mating, marriage, and why we stray (Revised ed.). W. W. Norton & Company.
Relationship Science:
  • Gottman, J. M. (1999). The marriage clinic: A scientifically based marital therapy. W. W. Norton & Company.
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Dating App Behavior:
  • Well+Good. (2018, March 7). Women who initiate conversations on dating apps have more successful relationships, according to data. Well+Good. https://www.wellandgood.com/lifestyle/women-initiate-conversation-on-dating-apps-successful
Other References:
  • Allen, N. (2023). Lights out. Zando – Slowburn.
  • Maehrer, H. N. (2024). [Title not provided]. Entangled Publishing, LLC.
Musical References: 
  • Fall Out Boy. (2005). Dirty little secret [Song]. On From Under the Cork Tree. Island Records. 
  • Paloma, P. (2023). Labour [Song]. On Cacophony. Nettwerk Music Group. 
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Music Credit:
Music by Joakim Karud soundcloud.com/joakimkarud

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